Monday, April 5, 2010

Back in the saddle again...

Unfortunately my blogging has been lagging for the last few months. Though I've been incredibly busy (thankfully)...with other endeavors, I have allowed myself lots of downtime to enjoy this precious time with my kids.

I've done a lot of reflecting lately and realize there is going to be lots of extra time to run my business in September when my youngest is in school for full days.

I've also really had one of those gold-plated realizations of what my absolute passion is on the business front, which has allowed me to make all types of connections with people who I've really been able to offer some solid advice to.

Its funny you know, ... you can start a business which seems to do well, bust your backside building it and get 'ok' results. You can sit back, chill, (still focus) ... but narrow down what your true calling is and things sometimes just fall into place.

I believe that there is a time and place for everything, same thing as when you hear 'everything happens for a reason'.....

hmmm... not sure if everything happens for a reason to be honest... but lots of things do. (at least according to my tiny mind).

Not sure what the real deal has been but maybe its because of the personal challenges of carrying around the weight of heartache after my divorce, and having to pull on the 'big girl panties' and move on, that I've actually found terrific ways to overcome the adversity and divorce grief and share with others who... for whatever reason have simply reached out and connected with me.

Again, I think all of this has to do with simply taking the time to chill and let things fall into place.

Here's a link to an article that got some pretty good attention for the first few days. There's better ones coming with lots of suggestions... but see what you think. I'll probably repost it anyway to this blog just to have back up. How To Overcome Divorce Grief and Move On With Your Life

If you need a hand on this topic and are looking for ways to 'grow out of divorce grief' give me a call. No need to go around smiling on the outside while crying on the inside for all of your life. Sooner or later the chips will fall into place, even if you have to give them a hand!